What Sex Aid shall I buy my girlfriend?

Dear Rio Lee,

I really love watching a girl play with herself and my girlfriend has told me she can’t come without a sex toy. At first I was a bit insulted as surely she only should want my cock, but then she explained that all the pornstars used them so that turned me on. I offered to make her a mold of my cock……to which she laughed! I’ve seen some really crazy sex toys and have no idea what to buy her now……..can you help?

Mr Lost in a Sex Toy Shop

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Dear Mr Lost in a Sex Toy Shop

Thanks for writing in to me. I love trying new sex toys and have tried most of them as I’m always lured in by a new toy. My most favourite sex toy is the standard £5 bullet as its so handy to keep in my handbag, it takes normal batteries or I can steal them from the tv remote or simply throw it away. I’d love to find a sex toy out there that works better than that!

Make sure you buy one with AA or AAA batteries there is nothing more annoying then buying a vibrator only to find after a night of passion I have to go to the special camera section in boots to replace it, embarrassing too if you are really horny!

Sex toys are always a personal choice but why don’t you buy your girlfriend a couples sex toy, like the wi-vibe (this is a sex toy that inserts into a girls pussy and you fuck her at the same time) so you can play too.

You could also buy a remote control egg sex toy (this is a sex toy gadget which u’ll love to control remotely), or you could get her a rabbit (the most popular sex toy around). There are a big difference between vibrators and dildos. Vibrators are more popular with girls as they are less work and because dildos really do make a girls arm ache!

I stupidly ordered a trio rabbit that has a clit tickler, a pussy rotator & an anal probe. I say stupidly as I was attracted to it as it kinda reminded me of a Star Wars light sabre but it took 4 AA batteries so as I was mastubating it was always a risk of my wrist ended up in a plaster cast as it ached so much with the weight of the batteries. I also find the rabbit is a really frustrating sex toy as the rotation works well but the tickler for the clit is just too soft whilst your pussy is being stimulated.

If she already has a lot of sex toys and you are giving her a special gift and are feeling extra generous then if it was me I’d like a sex toy I could use as an ornament such as one of the ones on here

I also recently tried out the wand by Lelo which is guaranteed for 10years and I broke it in a week! Opps! Luckily they replaced it straight away for me!

You can find a selection of Sex Toys on Love Honey or Ann Summers which are favourite shops of mine.

Love Rio Lee

Date a Pornstar

My perfect date:

It could be meeting for Champagne & Cavier in Harrods, teasing you to hell, wandering up to the lingerie department & choosing the most sluttiest, sexiest lingerie, jumping in a cab & heading back to the hotel for a Pornstar Party.

Whats a pornstar party? It wild, crazy SEX SEX SEX! And if you can handle it I’ll invite my naughty girlfriends to join us………sharing is caring baby!


Its the sort of night that you might end up flying to Las Vegas with me & my hot girlfriend, fucking in the back of a limo, getting strippers (aka me & my girls) dancing & grinding on you, fucking in a hot tub, getting married through a drive through, days rolling into nights, rolling into “Shit!@* what day is it! FUCK!!!! I’ve missed my plane!”

How does that sound for a first date?